The Body Doesn’t Lie

a close-up of roots underground

First the body whispers, then the body speaks, then the body screams. A scream signals desperation, a cry for care, a forced interruption to a context or construct that is no longer sustainable. A lot of us are accustomed to only listening when the body responds drastically. We might lack the safety or ritual to engage with its subtle cues, the gentle pulls toward or away from, the impulse for movement or stillness, and the emotional processing that can inspire action aligned with our values. We might repress or resent its innate wisdom, the ways it demonstrates complexity and aims for harmony, revealing over and over that we are animals/nature, not machines. When the systems that permeate into our own psyches reward labor more than love, productivity more than play, and running dry more than restorative rest, we learn to fear slowness. The pressure to perform can brace or collapse us internally, but sometimes might serve as a doorway into reimagination: an intimate journey of  resourcing, reflection, reclamation, and reorientation to a new way of being and relating that can be supported with a therapist as an anchor and the therapy space as a container.